Choose!!!

Please choose YOUR LIFE!

This is a common theme coming up all around me. Whether it is with clients, friends or my chosen family. 

People are acting as if they do not have a choice! THIS IS UTTER BULL SHIT!

You have choice. In fact, the way my brain works, you have 7 choices available to you. (Energy Leadership Index – ELI Want to learn more – check out it here – www.adventureafter.com/eli)

If you are thinking you do not have choice, you are resonating at a victim mentality energy. (Level 1)

You want to feel better? It starts with CHOOSING how you want to feel and then ALIGNING that with the thoughts you are thinking.

Most think they are looking for balance in their lives. Sure, that sounds lovely. However, what you do not get is that you are aligned in your thoughts and feelings, but you are rejecting what you are feeling and thinking without doing the work. 

Your feelings are not where you want to be. You want peace, yet your thoughts are around guilt, worry, self-doubt, and fear. You cannot have peace when you are not thinking peaceful thoughts. It doesn’t work that way. 

Truthfully, I used to feel like shit ALL THE TIME! I was a victim of my life experiences. This and that were happening to me. My mom dying, my whole family dying was happening to me. Victim, victim, victim. And if I got you to listen, I was going to make you buy into my victimhood. Maybe you did, maybe you didn’t. But guaranteed you left me feeling drained by my woe is me story. 

Have you ever left someone’s presence and needed a nap? That’s what I am talking about! And if you are in the woe is me, people are leaving you and needing a nap from all your never-ending drama.

I am not there anymore. What changed? Because the last I checked, they are all still dead.

My energy! That is what changed!

I didn’t want to feel like shit anymore. I didn’t want to be powerless. I didn’t want to be hopeless. I wanted peace and joy in my life.

And I CHOOSE to feel this every single day!

You have choice. What are you choosing?! 

Categories: Life Coaching