There is a distinct theme that is coming up for all of my clients (and also myself) – are you committed? In the world we live in today, we have been programed to not be committed. Have you ever seen a Facebook invite/event? Your options are interested and going. This Read more
An Italian sculptor held a personal exhibition of ice blocks entitled Life is short; enjoy it before it melts. Much love,Trudi
There are two stances you can come from. Victimhood or ownership. Ownership is being able to choose for yourself (hence why I am always talking about choosing!) Victimhood is about being at the mercy of your circumstance. For MANY years I lived my life in victimhood. And when I say many, I truly Read more
The Power of Choice is a everything! Life can happen to you OR you can create it exactly how you want it to be. Shortly after my mother passed, there were some people helping me go through the house. My mother’s best friend asked me about something she found. I responded Read more
One of my mentors (who has no clue he is my mentor!) sent an email the other day talking about the victim mindset. It was so good I wanted to share a portion of it with you! ‘The movies, the media, most parents, most everyone in the culture teach us to get Read more
Choose!!! Please choose YOUR LIFE! This is a common theme coming up all around me. Whether it is with clients, friends or my chosen family. People are acting as if they do not have a choice! THIS IS UTTER BULL SHIT! You have choice. In fact, the way my brain Read more
20 years ago, my life altered once again! My dad died unexpectedly after spending two weekends in a row watching hockey together. Once in Detroit and once in Chicago. The way my mother delivered the news to me was to tell me ‘Your dad is with Todd.’ Few words stated. Read more
Oversharing is unnecessary when you are telling someone no! It is that time of year when people are getting invitation to different events. Rather than stating that we cannot make it or can no longer make it, we feel like we need to share the why. That is not true. Read more
My heart truly bursts wide open knowing that I am providing each and every one of my clients the space to be seen and heard! While I cannot go into many details, what I love is that I am able to give a version of my younger self and grief-stricken self the Read more
Continuing what I started on Thursday. The why question is very limiting and judging. I remember clearly listening to my mom constantly saying, Why? Why me? after my brother died. I did not see at the time, but this was keeping her stuck in the energy of grief. While it is Read more